{"id":936,"date":"2022-05-05T16:10:22","date_gmt":"2022-05-05T16:10:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/?p=936"},"modified":"2022-05-06T08:47:55","modified_gmt":"2022-05-06T08:47:55","slug":"feeling-unappreciated-work-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/mind\/feeling-unappreciated-work-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"Feeling Unappreciated at Work or in a Relationship? 10 Things to Do"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes other people\u2019s behaviors leave us feeling unappreciated and ignored. It can happen in friendships, romantic relationships, and at work. What can you do to feel valued and appreciated again? As always, change starts with yourself.<\/p>\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_64 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title \" >Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #222222;color:#222222\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #222222;color:#222222\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/mind\/feeling-unappreciated-work-relationship\/#What_to_Do_When_Feeling_Unappreciated_at_Work\" title=\"What to Do When Feeling Unappreciated at Work?\">What to Do When Feeling Unappreciated at Work?<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/mind\/feeling-unappreciated-work-relationship\/#1_Learn_to_say_no\" title=\"1. Learn to say no\">1. Learn to say no<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/mind\/feeling-unappreciated-work-relationship\/#2_Voice_your_opinion_more_often\" title=\"2. Voice your opinion more often\">2. Voice your opinion more often<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/mind\/feeling-unappreciated-work-relationship\/#3_Make_sure_its_not_your_fault\" title=\"3. Make sure it\u2019s not your fault\">3. Make sure it\u2019s not your fault<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/mind\/feeling-unappreciated-work-relationship\/#4_Dont_take_on_too_many_responsibilities\" title=\"4. Don\u2019t take on too many responsibilities\">4. Don\u2019t take on too many responsibilities<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/mind\/feeling-unappreciated-work-relationship\/#5_Beware_of_toxic_workplaces\" title=\"5. Beware of toxic workplaces\">5. Beware of toxic workplaces<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/mind\/feeling-unappreciated-work-relationship\/#What_to_Do_When_Feeling_Unappreciated_in_a_Relationship\" title=\"What to Do When Feeling Unappreciated in a Relationship?\">What to Do When Feeling Unappreciated in a Relationship?<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/mind\/feeling-unappreciated-work-relationship\/#1_Make_sure_its_not_a_made-up_situation\" title=\"1. Make sure it\u2019s not a made-up situation\">1. Make sure it\u2019s not a made-up situation<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/mind\/feeling-unappreciated-work-relationship\/#2_Talk_it_through_with_your_partner\" title=\"2. Talk it through with your partner\">2. Talk it through with your partner<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-10\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/mind\/feeling-unappreciated-work-relationship\/#3_Stop_satisfying_your_partners_requests\" title=\"3. Stop satisfying your partner\u2019s requests\">3. Stop satisfying your partner\u2019s requests<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-11\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/mind\/feeling-unappreciated-work-relationship\/#4_Take_a_break\" title=\"4. Take a break\">4. Take a break<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-12\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/mind\/feeling-unappreciated-work-relationship\/#5_Beware_of_one-sided_relationships\" title=\"5. Beware of one-sided relationships\">5. Beware of one-sided relationships<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_to_Do_When_Feeling_Unappreciated_at_Work\"><\/span>What to Do When Feeling Unappreciated at Work?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_Learn_to_say_no\"><\/span>1. Learn to say no<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Being a <a href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/mind\/how-to-be-true-to-yourself\/\">people pleaser<\/a> is a one-way road to feeling unappreciated. The more often you say yes to other people\u2019s requests, the less they recognize your effort and help. It\u2019s unfair, but it\u2019s true.<\/p>\n<p>Do you constantly do favors for your co-workers and take on extra responsibilities at your boss&#8217;s request? Is the volume of your responsibilities constantly growing while your salary is staying the same?<\/p>\n<p>It could be that you say yes too often and this is what exposes you to being exploited by other people. A single no can sometimes have a more powerful effect than dozens of words.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, it\u2019s understandable that saying a plain no to your co-worker and especially your boss can be difficult. At the same time, you can always use an excuse to not do what they ask you for. The point is to show them that you are not available 24\/7 and have a life outside of the workplace.<\/p>\n<p>For example, if your boss asks you to work late to finish a report today, you can say that your daughter has a school performance, and you can\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_Voice_your_opinion_more_often\"><\/span>2. Voice your opinion more often<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-939\" src=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/feeling-unappreciated-at-work.jpg\" alt=\"feeling unappreciated at work\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/feeling-unappreciated-at-work.jpg 800w, https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/feeling-unappreciated-at-work-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/feeling-unappreciated-at-work-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Why would the company give you a raise if you\u2019ve never asked for it? How are your co-workers supposed to know that you want to lead a new project if you never speak up at office meetings? Will your boss ever guess that you struggle to cope with so many responsibilities if you\u2019ve never let him know about it?<\/p>\n<p>I guess you get the point. If you never speak up, then don\u2019t expect to be appreciated. <a href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/signs-your-friend-doesnt-respect-you\/\">People only respect those<\/a> who have a sound opinion and are not afraid to stand their ground.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, if you regularly feel unappreciated at work, you need to find the courage to voice your opinion more often. Whether it\u2019s having a conversation with your boss or suggesting your ideas at meetings, the point is to make sure your voice is heard.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, you may not manage to get your requests fulfilled immediately, but expressing yourself will make other people consider and respect your opinion.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_Make_sure_its_not_your_fault\"><\/span>3. Make sure it\u2019s not your fault<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Many people tend to blame others for their failures. So, if you ask yourself, <em>Why do I feel unappreciated at work?<\/em> it could be because you don\u2019t try hard enough.<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps you don\u2019t like leadership roles and always stay quiet when it comes to taking on new projects and tasks. But at the same time, it seems to you that you put much effort and no one appreciates it.<\/p>\n<p>You<a href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/mind\/feeling-invisible-causes\/\"> feel invisible at work<\/a>, but it\u2019s not other people\u2019s fault. It\u2019s because this is the role you choose for yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe you <a href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/personality\/jobs-for-people-who-hate-people\/\">don\u2019t like your job<\/a> and sabotage your duties without even realizing it. You are not overloaded with work and waste your time on nonsense day after day, looking forward to the end of working hours.<\/p>\n<p>This type of behavior in the workplace creates an impression of a lazy, uninvolved employee. Therefore, being unappreciated comes as a natural consequence of your approach to work.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4_Dont_take_on_too_many_responsibilities\"><\/span>4. Don\u2019t take on too many responsibilities<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>It may be tempting to agree to take on one responsibility to another to please your boss. You think that he will consider you to be a loyal, hard-working employee he can always rely on. And that he will appreciate your effort.<\/p>\n<p>Well, your boss will certainly think that you are a hard-working employee, but undertaking too many responsibilities will hardly give you more appreciation and respect.<\/p>\n<p>In reality, your boss will assign you the most difficult tasks and make you work extra hours. He will know that you won\u2019t say no anyway.<\/p>\n<p>So, if you want to avoid feeling unappreciated while working harder than anyone else, don\u2019t take on more responsibilities than you can handle. It will only lead you to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC4911781\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">emotional burnout<\/a> and a persistent feeling of being exploited.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5_Beware_of_toxic_workplaces\"><\/span>5. Beware of toxic workplaces<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>When you feel unappreciated at work, it\u2019s not always because of your supervisor. Sometimes the working environment itself is toxic. In a workplace like this, it\u2019s practically impossible to stay productive and focused on your duties.<\/p>\n<p>There are office cliques, unhealthy competition, and favoritism. In such environments, employees and supervisors don\u2019t show appreciation to one another.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, your co-worker may occasionally drop your boss a compliment or congratulate you on taking a new project, but you know that it\u2019s utterly fake. There is no genuine respect in such working environments. You could only feel undervalued and taken advantage of.<\/p>\n<p>So, it\u2019s better to <a href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/signs-you-should-stay-away-from-someone\/\">stay away from toxic workplaces<\/a>. It will save you mental energy and emotional resources.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_to_Do_When_Feeling_Unappreciated_in_a_Relationship\"><\/span>What to Do When Feeling Unappreciated in a Relationship?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<h3><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-938\" src=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/feeling-unappreciated-in-a-relationship.jpg\" alt=\"feeling unappreciated in a relationship\" width=\"800\" height=\"530\" srcset=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/feeling-unappreciated-in-a-relationship.jpg 800w, https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/feeling-unappreciated-in-a-relationship-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/feeling-unappreciated-in-a-relationship-768x509.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/h3>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_Make_sure_its_not_a_made-up_situation\"><\/span>1. Make sure it\u2019s not a made-up situation<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>When emotions get involved, it can be easy to misinterpret another person\u2019s behaviors and words. We often misunderstand our loved ones because we care about them. Our feelings and expectations toward them distort our realistic perception of things.<\/p>\n<p>So, when you feel unappreciated in a relationship, the first thing to do is to make sure that the situation is real. Maybe it just seems to you that your partner doesn\u2019t appreciate you.<\/p>\n<p>What if they are overloaded with work and have no time or energy to devote to your relationship right now? What if they are dealing with mental health issues? Perhaps they are going through a mid-life crisis?<\/p>\n<p>There can be many different scenarios that could explain a feeling of not being appreciated in a relationship. Sometimes it\u2019s very real, and sometimes it\u2019s not.<\/p>\n<p>For example, if you suffer from an emotional disorder such as anxiety or depression, it\u2019s easy to fall into a trap set by your own mind and see things that don\u2019t exist.<\/p>\n<p>When I feel unappreciated, the first thing I do is ask myself whether it\u2019s me or my anxiety. Most of the time, it turns out to be a made-up situation.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, before accusing your partner of <a href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/signs-your-family-doesnt-care-about-you\/\">ignoring you<\/a>, make sure it\u2019s not just a product of your mind.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_Talk_it_through_with_your_partner\"><\/span>2. Talk it through with your partner<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>When it comes to romantic relationships, expressing your feelings about a situation is the best strategy. Whatever it is that bothers you, you need to have an honest conversation with your special someone.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, it feels easier to just hold grudges and give your partner the silent treatment, but it won\u2019t help them understand <em>what<\/em> they are doing wrong. Therefore, it won\u2019t change the situation for the better.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why you need to let your partner know that their behavior leaves you feeling unappreciated. Avoid generalizations and overly emotional complaints though. Instead, make sure to stay calm and be specific about the behaviors that make you feel underappreciated.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe your partner will strongly disagree. Or maybe your words will make them think. In either case, they will know about your feelings, and it\u2019s a good start.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_Stop_satisfying_your_partners_requests\"><\/span>3. Stop satisfying your partner\u2019s requests<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Sometimes we find ourselves being involved with selfish people. In this unfortunate scenario, you are a giver and your partner is a taker. Everything you do for them is taken for granted, and <a href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/friend-of-convenience-signs\/\">new requests constantly arise<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>So, what to do when you feel unappreciated in your relationship with a selfish person? Stop doing things for your partner and see what happens. Don\u2019t immediately say yes to their new requests and take a break from your usual responsibilities.<\/p>\n<p>If your special someone is a selfish person, then most likely, they are not even aware that they are being ungrateful. They don&#8217;t notice everything you do for them. Doing without your help for some time will sober them up.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, most likely, it won\u2019t change who they are, but it will be a good wake-up call to start appreciating your effort.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4_Take_a_break\"><\/span>4. Take a break<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-705\" src=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/what-to-do-when-youre-lost-in-life.jpg\" alt=\"what to do when youre lost in life\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/what-to-do-when-youre-lost-in-life.jpg 800w, https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/what-to-do-when-youre-lost-in-life-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/what-to-do-when-youre-lost-in-life-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Physical absence can be even more effective when your partner ignores you or doesn\u2019t appreciate you.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe they are used to the fact that you are always there for them, ready to fulfill any request and take on any responsibility. The bitter truth is that the more we do for others, the less they appreciate it.<\/p>\n<p>So, leave your partner alone for some time. Try solo traveling, visit your parents, or arrange a road trip with your friends. This way, you will show your partner that you have needs of your own too and won\u2019t always do what they want you to.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5_Beware_of_one-sided_relationships\"><\/span>5. Beware of one-sided relationships<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Sometimes you neglect the fact that your relationship is one-sided because you have feelings for your partner that cloud your judgment.<\/p>\n<p>In this type of relationship, there inevitably comes a time when you feel unappreciated, ignored, and taken advantage of.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why you need to recognize the signs before it\u2019s too late. It can save you from further <a href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/feeling-disappointed-in-people\/\">disappointment<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>When feeling unappreciated in a relationship on a regular basis, ask yourself some uncomfortable questions:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Does your partner prefer to spend most of their free time with their friends?<\/li>\n<li>Do they only remember about you when they need something?<\/li>\n<li>Do they show no or little interest in you and your life?<\/li>\n<li>Do they make excuses to not give you support when you need it?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>These are just some of the signs that you are in a one-way relationship. To learn more, check <a href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/one-sided-friendship-signs\/\">this guide to one-sided friendships<\/a>. Most of the signs apply to romantic unions, too.<\/p>\n<p>To sum up, remember that <em>feeling<\/em> unappreciated doesn\u2019t always equal <em>being<\/em> unappreciated. Before concluding that someone ignores you or takes advantage of you, make sure to consider all facts.<\/p>\n<p>If it\u2019s real, then the next step is to ask yourself whether the workplace or the person that makes you feel undervalued is worth it.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes other people\u2019s behaviors leave us feeling unappreciated and ignored. It can happen in friendships, romantic relationships, and at work. What can you do to feel valued and appreciated again? As always, change starts with yourself. What to Do When Feeling Unappreciated at Work? 1. 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