{"id":586,"date":"2021-09-22T14:31:27","date_gmt":"2021-09-22T14:31:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/?p=586"},"modified":"2021-09-22T14:32:17","modified_gmt":"2021-09-22T14:32:17","slug":"aloof-personality-traits","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/personality\/aloof-personality-traits\/","title":{"rendered":"8 Traits of an Aloof Personality &#038; What It Means to Be One"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Do people often say that you are aloof and distant? What does an aloof personality mean and how can you figure out if you have it?<\/p>\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_64 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title \" >Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #222222;color:#222222\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #222222;color:#222222\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/personality\/aloof-personality-traits\/#Aloof_personality_definition\" title=\"Aloof personality definition\">Aloof personality definition<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/personality\/aloof-personality-traits\/#8_signs_that_you_have_aloof_personality_traits\" title=\"8 signs that you have aloof personality traits\">8 signs that you have aloof personality traits<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/personality\/aloof-personality-traits\/#1_You_prefer_your_own_company\" title=\"1. You prefer your own company\">1. You prefer your own company<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/personality\/aloof-personality-traits\/#2_You_have_no_interest_in_gossip_and_small_talk\" title=\"2. You have no interest in gossip and small talk\">2. You have no interest in gossip and small talk<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/personality\/aloof-personality-traits\/#3_You_dont_like_to_express_your_emotions_in_front_of_other_people\" title=\"3. You don\u2019t like to express your emotions in front of other people\">3. You don\u2019t like to express your emotions in front of other people<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/personality\/aloof-personality-traits\/#4_You_dont_open_up_to_people_easily\" title=\"4. You don\u2019t open up to people easily\">4. You don\u2019t open up to people easily<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/personality\/aloof-personality-traits\/#5_You_hate_to_ask_or_be_asked_personal_questions\" title=\"5. You hate to ask or be asked personal questions\">5. You hate to ask or be asked personal questions<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/personality\/aloof-personality-traits\/#6_You_are_not_very_interested_in_other_people\" title=\"6. You are not very interested in other people\">6. You are not very interested in other people<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/personality\/aloof-personality-traits\/#7_You_find_it_difficult_to_relate_to_those_around_you\" title=\"7. You find it difficult to relate to those around you\">7. You find it difficult to relate to those around you<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-10\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/personality\/aloof-personality-traits\/#8_You_feel_that_people_ruin_your_inner_peace_so_you_just_want_to_be_left_alone\" title=\"8. You feel that people ruin your inner peace, so you just want to be left alone\">8. You feel that people ruin your inner peace, so you just want to be left alone<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-11\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/personality\/aloof-personality-traits\/#Why_being_aloof_is_not_a_necessarily_negative_personality_trait\" title=\"Why being aloof is not a necessarily negative personality trait\">Why being aloof is not a necessarily negative personality trait<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Aloof_personality_definition\"><\/span>Aloof personality definition<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>An aloof person is someone who is distant, cold, and reserved. It is a person who keeps to themselves and doesn\u2019t express their emotions openly.<\/p>\n<p>Aloofness is associated with emotional coldness and a lack of friendliness and interest in other people. It\u2019s not a type of person who will have friendly chitchat with their co-worker or offer help to their neighbor.<\/p>\n<p>However, the roots of aloof behavior are not always negative. Some people just look cold on the surface, but it\u2019s only a defense mechanism.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"8_signs_that_you_have_aloof_personality_traits\"><\/span>8 signs that you have aloof personality traits<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_You_prefer_your_own_company\"><\/span>1. You prefer your own company<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>This is what aloof people and introverts have in common, and that is why these two personality traits are often confused.<\/p>\n<p>However, not every introvert is aloof, and not every aloof person is introverted. Sometimes people grow to be aloof for other reasons than having a natural inclination toward <a href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/mind\/solitude-vs-loneliness-difference\/\">solitude<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>But it\u2019s true that distant folks<strong> prefer their own company<\/strong>, just like the quiet ones do. They highly appreciate peace, calm, quiet environments, and solitary activities.<\/p>\n<p>They enjoy themselves more while being on their own than while spending time with other people.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_You_have_no_interest_in_gossip_and_small_talk\"><\/span>2. You have no interest in gossip and small talk<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>You won\u2019t see an aloof person discussing the latest celebrity gossip or talking about their co-workers behind their backs. They are simply uninterested in this stuff. The same is true about shallow chitchat.<\/p>\n<p>Aloof people don\u2019t like small talk and meaningless conversations. They see no point in talking nonsense just to fill the silence or look friendly to others.<\/p>\n<p>This behavior may also look similar to that of introverts, but the difference is that an aloof person <strong>doesn\u2019t mind looking unfriendly<\/strong>, so they will probably just ignore or get away from polite conversations.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_You_dont_like_to_express_your_emotions_in_front_of_other_people\"><\/span>3. You don\u2019t like to express your emotions in front of other people<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Aloof people seem cold and unemotional, but it\u2019s not always the case. Sometimes they just <strong>hide their feelings too well<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>In any case, if you are an aloof person, you hate to be seen being emotional. If you are upset or angry, you keep it to yourself. Only when you stay alone can you release your emotional burden.<\/p>\n<p>You won\u2019t see someone with an aloof personality crying or yelling. They hate to show their<strong> vulnerable side<\/strong> to others, and most of the time, they are pretty good at hiding it.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4_You_dont_open_up_to_people_easily\"><\/span>4. You don\u2019t open up to people easily<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>It makes sense that someone who looks distant and cold won\u2019t open up to others easily or at all.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not a person who would confide their marriage problems in a colleague they barely know. And it\u2019s certainly not a person who would tell the story of their life to a random stranger.<\/p>\n<p>An aloof person keeps everything to themselves, including <em>their personality<\/em>. Most likely, their neighbors, acquaintances, and co-workers have no idea about what kind of person they actually are.<\/p>\n<p>Someone with an aloof personality prefers to <strong>keep a safe distance from other people<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5_You_hate_to_ask_or_be_asked_personal_questions\"><\/span>5. You hate to ask or be asked personal questions<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>As a consequence of the previous trait, aloof people absolutely hate it when someone is trying to pry into their lives. Since they don\u2019t like to share even the tiniest bit of their personal lives with others, they get annoyed with nosy and overly sociable people.<\/p>\n<p>Most likely, an aloof person won\u2019t answer a personal question at all if they find it too intrusive. They will ignore it, pretend that they didn\u2019t understand it, or even give a sarcastic comeback.<\/p>\n<p>You can only imagine <strong>how unfriendly this may look,<\/strong> especially if you just met someone. But you know what? An aloof person doesn\u2019t care about being friendly if it involves tolerating annoying behaviors or acting fake.<\/p>\n<p>And of course, aloof people are uninterested in snooping into others\u2019 business either. They will never get intrusive or ask inappropriate personal questions.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"6_You_are_not_very_interested_in_other_people\"><\/span>6. You are not very interested in other people<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Someone with an aloof personality is not really interested in other people. They are not very motivated to get to know those around them better, and this is the basic reason why they don\u2019t ask them questions about their lives.<\/p>\n<p>This is a <strong>key difference between being aloof and being introverted<\/strong>. <a href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/personality\/signs-of-an-introvert\/\">Introverts<\/a> are interested in other people and just get tired quickly in certain social situations.<\/p>\n<p>But an aloof person finds other activities more fascinating and engaging than socializing with others. Typically, they are uninterested in <a href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/how-introverts-make-friends\/\">meeting new people and making friends<\/a>, so they will rarely take initiative in social settings.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"7_You_find_it_difficult_to_relate_to_those_around_you\"><\/span>7. You find it difficult to relate to those around you<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Your aloof personality can sometimes make you feel like you have nothing in common with those around you.<\/p>\n<p>You often <a href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/why-do-i-feel-like-i-dont-belong-anywhere\/\">feel alienated and detached from other people<\/a> for no reason. You find it extremely difficult to find common ground and establish contact with others, especially if they are total strangers.<\/p>\n<p>It seems like you are so used to keeping your distance from other human beings that you struggle to approach someone even when you want to. Yes, it can happen to an aloof person to meet someone they like or have common interests with.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Emotional detachment from others<\/strong> has become your second nature, and it\u2019s not easy to step over it. Aloof people have a hard time starting and maintaining intimate relationships, be it friendly or romantic connections.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"8_You_feel_that_people_ruin_your_inner_peace_so_you_just_want_to_be_left_alone\"><\/span>8. You feel that people ruin your inner peace, so you just want to be left alone<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Being aloof doesn\u2019t necessarily mean that you hate everyone. However, if you have this trait, you tend to believe that other people ruin your inner harmony and peace, so it\u2019s better to stay away from them.<\/p>\n<p>You appreciate freedom and calm most of all, so you prefer to be alone than with others who disturb your peace. Of course, isolating yourself from those around you also means that you miss on some of life\u2019s greatest experiences such as <a href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/why-do-i-have-no-friends\/\">meaningful friendships<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>But as an aloof person, you tend to expect bad things from other people, so you regard distancing yourself from them as the wisest approach.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Why_being_aloof_is_not_a_necessarily_negative_personality_trait\"><\/span>Why being aloof is not a necessarily negative personality trait<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>An aloof personality is not a product of purely negative traits such as indifference and coldness.<\/p>\n<p>Some people may appear aloof while being sensitive and kind deep inside. But as a result of trauma or past hurts, they prefer to keep to themselves. They just don\u2019t like to expose their vulnerabilities to others and are afraid of opening up.<\/p>\n<p>Others may be too rational, which leaves them being unemotional and uninterested in nonsense.<\/p>\n<p>In this case, an aloof person may <a href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/personality\/antisocial-vs-introverted-difference\/\">neglect the rules of polite behavior<\/a> or skip small talk because they see no point in acting fake and talking about meaningless things\u2013 not because they don\u2019t care about other people.<\/p>\n<p><strong>An aloof personality is not always what it seems<\/strong>. Keep it in mind when you meet a distant guy who avoids the company of others and refuses to have small talk. There may be some good reasons why he acts this way.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Do people often say that you are aloof and distant? What does an aloof personality mean and how can you figure out if you have it? 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