{"id":417,"date":"2021-06-17T18:03:58","date_gmt":"2021-06-17T18:03:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/?p=417"},"modified":"2021-10-17T13:49:07","modified_gmt":"2021-10-17T13:49:07","slug":"why-do-i-have-no-friends","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/why-do-i-have-no-friends\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;Why Do I Have No Friends?&#8217; 7 Reasons and What to Do"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>If you are an introvert or loner just like I am, you may have an extremely small social circle. I certainly do.<\/p>\n<p>While I&#8217;m perfectly fine with it, sometimes, I still feel like something is missing, and this is when I wonder <em>why I have no friends<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>If your life lacks friendships too, the first step is to find the cause of it. Only then you will know what to do about it and how to make friends.<\/p>\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_64 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title \" >Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #222222;color:#222222\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #222222;color:#222222\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/why-do-i-have-no-friends\/#Why_Do_I_Have_No_Friends_7_Possible_Reasons\" title=\"Why Do I Have No Friends? 7 Possible Reasons\">Why Do I Have No Friends? 7 Possible Reasons<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/why-do-i-have-no-friends\/#1_Life_circumstances\" title=\"1. Life circumstances\">1. Life circumstances<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/why-do-i-have-no-friends\/#2_Your_friendships_lack_depth\" title=\"2. Your friendships lack depth\">2. Your friendships lack depth<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/why-do-i-have-no-friends\/#3_You_dont_give_other_people_the_chance_to_get_to_know_you\" title=\"3. You don&#8217;t give other people the chance to get to know you\">3. You don&#8217;t give other people the chance to get to know you<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/why-do-i-have-no-friends\/#4_You_need_to_improve_your_social_and_communication_skills\" title=\"4. You need to improve your social and communication skills\">4. You need to improve your social and communication skills<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/why-do-i-have-no-friends\/#5_You_suffer_from_insecurity_and_a_fear_of_rejection\" title=\"5. You suffer from insecurity and a fear of rejection\">5. You suffer from insecurity and a fear of rejection<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/why-do-i-have-no-friends\/#6_You_are_a_loner\" title=\"6. You are a loner\">6. You are a loner<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/why-do-i-have-no-friends\/#7_You_just_feel_like_you_have_no_friends_but_its_not_true\" title=\"7. You just feel like you have no friends, but it&#8217;s not true\">7. You just feel like you have no friends, but it&#8217;s not true<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/why-do-i-have-no-friends\/#What_to_Do_If_You_Have_No_Friends\" title=\"What to Do If You Have No Friends?\">What to Do If You Have No Friends?<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-10\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/why-do-i-have-no-friends\/#1_Examine_your_behavior\" title=\"1. Examine your behavior\">1. Examine your behavior<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-11\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/why-do-i-have-no-friends\/#2_Evaluate_your_social_circle\" title=\"2. Evaluate your social circle\">2. Evaluate your social circle<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-12\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/why-do-i-have-no-friends\/#2_Try_to_find_like-minded_friends\" title=\"2. Try to find like-minded friends\">2. Try to find like-minded friends<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-13\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/why-do-i-have-no-friends\/#3_Boost_your_self-esteem_and_cultivate_self-acceptance\" title=\"3. Boost your self-esteem and cultivate self-acceptance\">3. Boost your self-esteem and cultivate self-acceptance<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-14\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/why-do-i-have-no-friends\/#4_Watch_your_body_language\" title=\"4. Watch your body language\">4. Watch your body language<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-15\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/why-do-i-have-no-friends\/#5_Identify_possible_communication_problems\" title=\"5. Identify possible communication problems\">5. Identify possible communication problems<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-16\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/why-do-i-have-no-friends\/#6_Dont_shy_away_from_social_situations\" title=\"6. Don&#8217;t shy away from social situations\">6. Don&#8217;t shy away from social situations<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-17\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/why-do-i-have-no-friends\/#Friendships_are_important\" title=\"Friendships are important\">Friendships are important<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Why_Do_I_Have_No_Friends_7_Possible_Reasons\"><\/span>Why Do I Have No Friends? 7 Possible Reasons<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_Life_circumstances\"><\/span>1. Life circumstances<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Losing friends is inevitable in adult life. Moreover, as we grow older, it becomes increasingly difficult to make new ones. So probably the most obvious reason why you don&#8217;t have friends is the natural course of life.<\/p>\n<p>Your school\/college friends might have started families, and you feel like you don&#8217;t have much in common with them anymore. They could have moved to a different city, and you can&#8217;t see them as often as before. Busy schedules also don&#8217;t help with maintaining old friendships.<\/p>\n<p>Then, our interests and goals in life also change as we grow older, so you might feel like a connection with your friends is not like it used to be.<\/p>\n<p>All this can be really disappointing, but sometimes, life circumstances take your friends away, and there is nothing you can do about it.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_Your_friendships_lack_depth\"><\/span>2. Your friendships lack depth<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Another typical cause of feeling like you have no friends is that your social connections are too superficial. It is particularly important if you are an introvert because this personality type values meaningful communication above all.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, if you are surrounded by people who don&#8217;t share your values, interests, and goals in life, and all your conversations revolve around routine and small talk topics, you may start to feel like something important is missing from your life. It could very well be that these people are not your friends and are just temporary acquaintances that won&#8217;t last.<\/p>\n<p>You may maintain a certain number of social connections just because it&#8217;s considered a normal thing to do, especially if you are a teenager or young adult. At this age, we are supposed to have an active social life and hang out with many different people.<\/p>\n<p>But what ultimately matters is not the number of your friends but the quality of your friendships. It could be that you feel alone because you have realized that you have no real friends and the people who surround you are just passers-by in your life.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_You_dont_give_other_people_the_chance_to_get_to_know_you\"><\/span>3. You don&#8217;t give other people the chance to get to know you<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Other people are not always to blame for the fact that you don\u2019t have friends. It often has to do with your behaviors and personality traits.<\/p>\n<p>When you are an overly guarded person, you simply don\u2019t give other people the chance to become a part of your life. Many introverts, socially anxious people, and those with a history of abuse, mental illness, or psychological trauma find it difficult to trust and open up to others.<\/p>\n<p>It makes perfect sense to be cautious about approaching other people when you have been repeatedly hurt or betrayed in the past. This trait could also stem from your natural personality traits &#8211; introverts and loners tend to be very guarded about meeting and opening up to new people.<\/p>\n<p>However, as long as you hold the grip of your defense mechanisms too tightly, it will be difficult for you to make acquaintances and form friendships.<\/p>\n<p>As for me, I know perfectly well that my reserved, guarded personality is the main reason why I have no friends. Maybe the same is true for you.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4_You_need_to_improve_your_social_and_communication_skills\"><\/span>4. You need to improve your social and communication skills<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>A lack of communication skills is among the major reasons why people don&#8217;t have friends.<\/p>\n<p>Some of us are lucky to have an innate ability to easily connect with other human beings, but not everyone is blessed with this talent. I know that my communication and social skills were never good enough, and this is what could explain why I have no friends.<\/p>\n<p>If you have the same problem, it may result in the fact that you send other people the wrong messages. For example, you don&#8217;t look interested during a conversation or talk only about yourself. You might have the tendency to complain all the time and be too negative, and other people find it annoying.<\/p>\n<p>These little habits may easily push others away, and you don&#8217;t even realize it.<\/p>\n<p>Whatever your communication problem might be, the great part is that it&#8217;s always possible to enhance your ability to connect with others. We will discuss it in more detail below.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5_You_suffer_from_insecurity_and_a_fear_of_rejection\"><\/span>5. You suffer from insecurity and a fear of rejection<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>An insecure person has trouble communicating with others because <a href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/mind\/not-feeling-good-enough\/\">self-esteem issues<\/a> and irrational fears distort our perception of ourselves and other people. Thus, if you suffer from low self-esteem and a fear of rejection, you might believe that people don&#8217;t like you and no one wants to be friends with you, so it&#8217;s not worth even trying.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/clarkrelationshiplab.yale.edu\/sites\/default\/files\/files\/Walking%20on%20eggshells_%20How%20expressing%20relationship%20insecurities%20perpetuates%20them(1).pdf\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Insecurities<\/a> don&#8217;t affect only teenagers &#8211; adults can have them too. As it&#8217;s getting more and more difficult to make friends as you grow older, at some point, you might give up. You may think that everyone already has an established social circle at this age, so why would they let you into it?<\/p>\n<p>But in reality, most people love to make acquaintances at any age, and this belief is nothing but a product of your insecurities. The same is true about the fear of being rejected or judged. When your self-esteem is low, you tend to think like everyone is busy looking for the faults in your behavior, speech, or appearance.<\/p>\n<p>But it doesn&#8217;t work this way &#8211; most people are focused on themselves and don&#8217;t give much importance to what others say or do.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"6_You_are_a_loner\"><\/span>6. You are a loner<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Not all causes of a lack of friends are about your faults or personality flaws. If you are an extremely introverted loner just like I am, you have no friends because you have a reduced need for social interaction.<\/p>\n<p>I always felt like an outsider who was puzzlingly unable to connect with other people. As a teenager, I often asked myself why I had no friends while everyone was hanging out with everyone else in school and college.<\/p>\n<p>It was only years later when I realized that I was perfectly fine with having just one or two genuine, loyal friendships. Well, sometimes I still feel like it&#8217;s wrong to have basically no friends and no social life, and I should socialize more. But I keep in mind that it&#8217;s what my authentic self wants, and it&#8217;s okay.<\/p>\n<p>If you are a loner too, you don&#8217;t need to wonder why you don&#8217;t have friends. Neither do you need to rush to make as many acquaintances as you can. What you need to do is to fully accept your personality and tailor your life around it.<\/p>\n<p>Ask yourself, \u2018<em>Is making friends what I truly need or is it what society wants me to do<\/em>?\u2019 It could be that the desire to expand your social circle is nothing but the effect of social conditioning.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"7_You_just_feel_like_you_have_no_friends_but_its_not_true\"><\/span>7. You just feel like you have no friends, but it&#8217;s not true<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Finally, it might not be true at all that you don&#8217;t have friends. You could be going through a hard time in life and feel like everything is falling apart, including your friendships. It could be a personal or existential crisis when your life ceases to make sense. While it&#8217;s a painful experience, it is meant to teach you important life lessons.<\/p>\n<p>Then, the feeling like you don&#8217;t have friends may also stem from <a href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/no-one-understands-me\/\">misunderstandings<\/a>. For example, you found yourself in a difficult situation, and your friend didn&#8217;t show you the support and understanding that you expected. But in reality, it could be that he was experiencing a tough period himself.<\/p>\n<p>You may also feel like your friend is ignoring you, but what you don&#8217;t know is that he or she is super busy with a new project at work. Misunderstandings happen way too often. So, before jumping to conclusions, it&#8217;s always wise to try to see the situation from another person&#8217;s perspective.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_to_Do_If_You_Have_No_Friends\"><\/span>What to Do If You Have No Friends?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>If your life lacks friendships, there are a few things to do before you can meet new people and expand your social circle:<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_Examine_your_behavior\"><\/span>1. Examine your behavior<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>If you suspect that the culprit for the lack of friends in your life is your poor communication skills, it makes sense to analyze your behavior.<\/p>\n<p>Ask yourself,<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u2018<em>Do any of my behaviors, habits, or personality traits push other people away<\/em>?\u2019<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>It&#8217;s difficult to be 100% honest and objective during self-analysis, so ask someone who knows you well. It could be your sibling or romantic partner. Sometimes, we neglect the negative aspects of ourselves, so getting a second opinion is a good idea.<\/p>\n<p>Ask the other person the following questions:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Do I have annoying conversational habits?<\/li>\n<li>What could I change or improve to connect to other people easier?<\/li>\n<li>Which of my personality traits prevent me from making friends?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>You might be surprised by your findings.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_Evaluate_your_social_circle\"><\/span>2. Evaluate your social circle<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>As important it is to analyze yourself, no less important is to evaluate your current social connections. Most of the time, the feeling that you don&#8217;t have friends has a real basis, and you should listen to it. It could be that deep inside, you already know that you are in the wrong company, and this is where feelings of loneliness come from.<\/p>\n<p>To analyze the quality of your social circle, ask yourself a few questions:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Do I feel comfortable confiding in my friends?<\/li>\n<li>Are they genuinely interested in me and my life?<\/li>\n<li>Are they there for me when I need them most?<\/li>\n<li>How do I feel about myself in the company of this person?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_Try_to_find_like-minded_friends\"><\/span>2. Try to find like-minded friends<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>The need to be liked and accepted is deeply rooted in our psyche. However, sometimes, this need makes us pursue the wrong things.<\/p>\n<p>Our extroverted society and the ever-present desire to show off on social media often make us want to be liked by everyone. But this is good only for getting likes on your photoshopped Instagram selfies but is totally pointless in real life.<\/p>\n<p>What truly matters is the quality of your friendships and the depth of communication, not the number of your social media and real-life friends. And this is valid no matter if you are an extrovert or an introvert.<\/p>\n<p>If you have realized that you have no friends, it could be that you\u2019ve been looking in the wrong places all this time. What you need to focus on is finding like-minded people with similar interests and values in life. This is what would add more meaning to your life, unlike superficial friendships.<\/p>\n<p>To find like-minded friends, follow your interest or hobby. You could also join a local community or a social media group that promotes the ideas and values you believe in.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_Boost_your_self-esteem_and_cultivate_self-acceptance\"><\/span>3. Boost your self-esteem and cultivate self-acceptance<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>If you suffer from a fear of rejection and feel like you are not good enough for connecting to other people, you need to work on your self-esteem first of all. The same is true if you are a loner or introvert who feels like s\/he has no friends and it&#8217;s not normal.<\/p>\n<p>When you have self-esteem issues and are afraid to be judged or rejected, it has two adverse effects on your social life. First of all, your communication skills suffer, and you send other people the wrong messages. Secondly and most importantly, you don&#8217;t feel comfortable showing your authentic self to others.<\/p>\n<p>The second consequence of insecurity is much more dangerous as it can leave you being surrounded by the wrong people, having fake relationships, and living a life that is not meant for you. It&#8217;s because you don&#8217;t give other people the chance to get to know the real you.<\/p>\n<p>Thus, if you want to make friends, you should start with boosting your self-esteem and cultivating self-acceptance so that you feel more confident with other people.<\/p>\n<p>There are countless strategies for increasing your self-esteem, and you need to pick the ones that work for you. Journaling, cognitive-behavioral techniques, and exposure therapy are among the most effective methods.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4_Watch_your_body_language\"><\/span>4. Watch your body language<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Sometimes you have no friends because you send confusing non-verbal signals to other people. It&#8217;s a common problem of all introverts, socially anxious people, and those with insecurities.<\/p>\n<p>Non-verbal cues such as avoiding eye contact, keeping your hands crossed, and looking down tell the other person that you are either hiding something or are not interested in communication. I struggle with maintaining eye contact, and while it&#8217;s not the main reason why I have no friends, I know that it is still something that pushes people away.<\/p>\n<p>Our body language and facial expressions are the same important as the actual words we say. That&#8217;s why watch how you move, talk, and sit to find out if there are any cues that betray insecurities and unwillingness to communicate.<\/p>\n<p>Once again, you can ask your loved ones if any of your non-verbal behaviors look weird or confusing.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5_Identify_possible_communication_problems\"><\/span>5. Identify possible communication problems<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Body language is important, but don&#8217;t forget about verbal communication as well. It has many different components, but the most annoying communication habits are:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Interrupting others<\/li>\n<li>Not listening and being uninterested in what other people say<\/li>\n<li>Getting confrontational for no reason<\/li>\n<li>Turning all conversations to yourself<\/li>\n<li>Being judgmental and overly critical<\/li>\n<li>Being nosy and asking intrusive questions<\/li>\n<li>Complaining all the time<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>All these problems can be solved with careful self-analysis and constant practice. The first step is to find the areas where your social skills need improvement.<\/p>\n<p>For example, you have realized that you look overly aloof and never ask other people questions. Now, it&#8217;s time to act on it. Next time you are about to attend a party and make acquaintances, set a goal to ask each new person at least three questions. It will be hard in the beginning, but you will see that with some practice, it will seem much easier.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"6_Dont_shy_away_from_social_situations\"><\/span>6. Don&#8217;t shy away from social situations<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>If you are highly introverted or socially anxious, it&#8217;s easy to end up avoiding socialization. But not returning calls and turning down invitations is a sure way to stay without friends.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, if you feel that your life lacks friendships, it could be that you isolate yourself too much. We all try to avoid situations and settings that make us uncomfortable, but if you really want to make friends, you need to welcome opportunities for communication.<\/p>\n<p>Stop shying away from situations and social events where you have to interact with strangers. Instead, embrace them. For example, you could go to an event alone or even try solo traveling. It may sound terrifying, but this is how exposure therapy works &#8211; you do what scares you the most! It&#8217;s going to make you really uncomfortable, but it works.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Friendships_are_important\"><\/span>Friendships are important<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>I hope that this guide has clarified the possible reasons why you don\u2019t have friends and you now know what to do about it.<\/p>\n<p>So here is a final piece of advice: if you are an introvert or loner, don&#8217;t betray yourself trying to chase friendships.<\/p>\n<p>I have no friends except for one or two former classmates I still keep in touch with, and I\u2019m okay with it. Sometimes, in order to welcome other people into your life, you need to make peace with yourself first.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you are an introvert or loner just like I am, you may have an extremely small social circle. I certainly do. While I&#8217;m perfectly fine with it, sometimes, I still feel like something is missing, and this is when I wonder why I have no friends. 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