{"id":1239,"date":"2023-01-19T10:27:10","date_gmt":"2023-01-19T10:27:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/?p=1239"},"modified":"2023-01-19T10:27:10","modified_gmt":"2023-01-19T10:27:10","slug":"misunderstanding-quotes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/misunderstanding-quotes\/","title":{"rendered":"72 Misunderstanding Quotes for Relationships and Friendships"},"content":{"rendered":"

Can we fully understand another person? Or do we only hear what we want to hear? Do we just put our own meanings into others\u2019 words? Our list of misunderstanding quotes may give answers to these questions.<\/p>\n

Understanding is probably one of the most unreachable things in life. Sometimes even those we care about don\u2019t always \u201cget\u201d us, which can cause pain and alienation. Yet, there is a single root of all misunderstandings: we see other people and everything they do and say from our\u2014<\/em>not their\u2014perspective and level of perception.<\/p>\n

We tailor their decisions and behaviors to ourselves, forgetting that every person is unique, and everyone has their own motivations, which may be totally different from ours. That’s why misunderstanding happens in relationships and friendships, and that’s why there are so many great, profound quotes on this topic. After all, every one of us seeks to be accepted and understood, especially by our friends and loved ones.<\/p>\n

The below quotes about misunderstanding explore and explain these problems of human communication. If you ever feel misunderstood, I\u2019m sure that you will enjoy our compilation.<\/p>\n

72 Misunderstanding Quotes That Show Why It\u2019s So Hard to Understand Others<\/h2>\n

1. If you knew how rarely people actually understand you, you\u2019d speak less.<\/p>\n

-Unknown<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

2. Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds. The mediocre mind is incapable of understanding the man who refuses to bow blindly to conventional prejudices and chooses instead to express his opinions courageously and honestly.<\/p>\n

-Albert Einstein<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

If you agree with this quote, you may also want to read about the reasons why to be great is to be misunderstood<\/a>.<\/p>\n

3. The biggest communication problem is we do not listen to understand. We listen to reply.<\/p>\n

-Unknown<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

4. He who does not understand your silence will probably not understand your words.<\/p>\n

-Elbert Hubbard<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

5. Understanding is deeper than knowledge. There are many people who know us, but there are very few who understand us.<\/p>\n

-Unknown<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

6. The worst distance between two people is misunderstanding.<\/p>\n

-Unknown<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

\"The<\/p>\n

7. The more you understand, the less you are understood by other people.<\/p>\n

-Unknown<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

8. You know people. Most of them don’t hear anything. Those who hear – don’t listen. A few who listen – don’t understand. And those who could understand\u2026 they don\u2019t care.<\/p>\n

-Bernard Werber<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

9. It’s dreadful what little things lead people to misunderstand each other.<\/p>\n

-L.M. Montgomery<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

10. Sometimes a person’s silence means “I’m tired of explaining to people who don\u2019t even care to understand.”<\/p>\n

-Unknown<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Do you feel this way? Read about what it means when no one understands you<\/a>.<\/p>\n

11. Always remember that it is impossible to speak in such a way that you cannot be misunderstood: there will always be some who misunderstand you.<\/p>\n

-Karl Popper<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

12. I used to think that the worst thing in life was to end up alone. It’s not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel alone.<\/p>\n

-Robin Williams<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Is this how you feel? It could be that your friends don\u2019t care about you\u2014you can read about it here<\/a>.<\/p>\n

13. Somewhere between love and hate lies confusion, misunderstanding, and desperate hope.<\/p>\n

-Shannon L. Alder<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

14. The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place.<\/p>\n

-George Bernard Shaw<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

\"The<\/p>\n

15. In the end, everyone can understand themselves only. You are the only one to which you never have to explain what you mean. Everything else is misunderstanding.<\/p>\n

-Renate Dorrestein<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

But what if you don’t even understand yourself? Take a look at this guide on how to be true to yourself<\/a>.<\/p>\n

16. I am only responsible for what I say, not for what you understand.<\/p>\n

-Unknown<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

17. Always say exactly what you feel. People are hurt more by misunderstanding than anything else.<\/p>\n

-Louise Fitzhugh<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

18. There is no communication that is so simple that it cannot be misunderstood.<\/p>\n

-Luigina Sgarro<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

19. Don\u2019t make assumptions unless you know the whole story. If in doubt, ask the person directly.<\/p>\n

-Unknown<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

20. Most of the trouble in life comes from misunderstanding.<\/p>\n

-L.M. Montgomery<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

21. We’re all islands shouting lies to each other across seas of misunderstanding.<\/p>\n

-Rudyard Kipling<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

\n22. A single moment of misunderstanding is so poisonous that it makes us forget the hundreds of lovable moments we’ve spent together within a minute.<\/p>\n

-Unknown<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

23. As soon as we start putting our thoughts into words and sentences, everything gets distorted. Language is just no damn good\u2014I use it because I have to, but I don\u2019t put any trust in it. We never understand each other.<\/p>\n

-Marcel Duchamp<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

24. We cannot control the way people interpret our ideas or thoughts, but we can control the words and tones we choose to convey them. Peace is built on understanding, and wars are built on misunderstandings.<\/p>\n

-Suzy Kassem<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

25. They have the unique ability to listen to one story and understand another.<\/p>\n

-Pandora Poikilos<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

26. Misunderstanding is like a tumor. If you don\u2019t take care of it, it will grow bigger and bigger.<\/p>\n

-Unknown<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

27. Please don\u2019t expect me to always be good and kind and loving. There are times when I will be cold and thoughtless and hard to understand.<\/p>\n

-Sylvia Plath<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Does this quote speak to you? You may want to read about the struggles of living with an aloof personality<\/a>.<\/p>\n

28. Perhaps one did not want to be loved so much as to be understood.<\/p>\n

-George Orwell<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

29. The fear of being misunderstood is the beginning of mediocrity.<\/p>\n

-Ogwo David Emenike<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

If you strongly agree with this saying, I’m certain that you will also enjoy this compilation of quotes about standing out from the crowd<\/a>.<\/p>\n

30. A mistake is to commit a misunderstanding.<\/p>\n

-Bob Dylan<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

31. I stopped explaining myself when I realized other people only understand from their level of perception.<\/p>\n

-Unknown<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

\"I<\/p>\n

If you like the vibe this misunderstanding quote gives off, you may also want to check our article about feeling disappointed in people<\/a>.<\/p>\n

32. Never waste your time trying to explain who you are to people who are committed to misunderstanding you.<\/p>\n

-Unknown<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

\n33. The only thing for sure we know about communication is that we tend to get it wrong.<\/p>\n

-Michael Ray Smith<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

34. Nothing is easier than for two people in love to misunderstand each other.<\/p>\n

-Marty Rubin<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

35. There are some people who could hear you speak a thousand words and still not understand you, and there are others who will understand without you even speaking a word.<\/p>\n

-Unknown<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Do you feel this way about the people in your life? You could be in the wrong company. Learn about the red flags in friendships<\/a>\u00a0to make sure you surround yourself with the right people.<\/p>\n

36. Most misunderstandings in the world could be avoided if people would simply take the time to ask, “What else could this mean?\u201d<\/p>\n

-Shannon L. Alder<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

37. I have suffered from being misunderstood, but I would have suffered a hell of a lot more if I had been understood.<\/p>\n

-Clarence Darrow<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

38. And it worries me how misunderstandings exist because people would rather have a hole in their heart than to talk their issues out.<\/p>\n

-Faraaz Kazi<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

39. Don\u2019t expect her to paraphrase her life for you; she was born to be a story. And if you can\u2019t understand that, then perhaps she\u2019s beyond your reading level.<\/p>\n

-Jonny Ox<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Do you have a person in your life who seems unapproachable and too difficult to understand? Check through the signs someone doesn\u2019t want to be your friend<\/a>.<\/p>\n

40. Excessive talk leads to misunderstandings.<\/p>\n

-Bert McCoy<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

41. Love is a strange and inexplicable mix of comprehension and misunderstanding.<\/p>\n

-Unknown<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

42. Misunderstandings, if left unsolved, will push people so apart that they might never come together again.<\/p>\n

-Unknown<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Does this misunderstanding quote make you think about your friendship? Read through the signs you are growing apart from your friends<\/a>.<\/p>\n

43. It’s extraordinary, the amount of misunderstandings there are even between two people who discuss a thing quite often – both of them assuming different things and neither of them discovering the discrepancy.<\/p>\n

-Agatha Christie<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

44. It’s remarkable the logic we’ll build around a misapprehension.<\/p>\n

-Sloane Crosley<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

45. 10% of conflict is due to a difference of opinion and 90% is due to the wrong tone of voice.<\/p>\n

-Unknown<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

\"10%<\/p>\n

46. But as with all geniuses, being ahead of her time meant leading a rather lonely and misunderstood existence.<\/p>\n

-Reham Khan<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

47. Most of the problems in life are because:<\/p>\n

We misunderstand people’s intentions,<\/p>\n

We don’t listen and jump to conclusions,<\/p>\n

Then we are too proud to apologize and too stubborn to forgive.<\/p>\n

-Mouloud Benzadi<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

48. The great enemy of communication, we find, is the illusion of it. We have talked enough; but we have not listened. And by not listening we have failed to concede the immense complexity of our society\u2014and thus the great gaps between ourselves and those with whom we seek understanding.<\/p>\n

-William H. Whyte<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

\n49. But luxury has never appealed to me, I like simple things, books, being alone, or with somebody who understands.<\/p>\n

-Daphne du Maurier<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Does this quote describe who you are? You may enjoy this article about people who like being alone<\/a>.<\/p>\n

50. It’s very important to choose our words very carefully because miscommunication leads to misunderstanding, which rarely leads to anything good.<\/p>\n

-Charles F. Glassman<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

51. Between two brains, there will always be misunderstandings and lies caused by parasitic smells, drafts and poor-quality reception.<\/p>\n

-Bernard Werber<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

52. Have you ever considered, beloved other, how invisible we are to each other? We look at each other without seeing. We listen to each other and hear only a voice inside out self.<\/p>\n

The words of others are mistakes of our hearing, shipwrecks of our understanding. How confidently we believe OUR meanings of other people’s words.<\/p>\n

-Fernando Pessoa<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

53. But they were fated to misunderstand each other.<\/p>\n

-Rafael Sabatini<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

54. Don\u2019t judge my choices without understanding my reasons.<\/p>\n

-Unknown<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

\"Don\u2019t<\/p>\n

55. Misunderstanding must be nakedly exposed before true understanding can begin to flourish.<\/p>\n

-Philip Yancey<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

56. The world only goes round by misunderstanding.<\/p>\n

-Charles Baudelaire<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

57. Shallow understanding from people of good will is more frustrating than absolute misunderstanding from people of ill will.<\/p>\n

-Martin Luther King, Jr.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

58. You always risk people misunderstanding you when you say anything.<\/p>\n

-Phil Lord<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

59. I\u2019ve only met about 3 or 4 people who genuinely understand me. Everyone else just assumes I\u2019m angry, sarcastic, or an asshole.<\/p>\n

-Unknown<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

60. So many great ideas come out of a misunderstanding.<\/p>\n

-Ryan Fleck<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

61. Sometimes it takes a misunderstanding for you to truly understand where you stand with a person.<\/p>\n

-Unknown<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

62. Distance doesn\u2019t separate people. Misunderstanding does.<\/p>\n

-Unknown<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

\"Distance<\/p>\n

If you feel like a friend is trying to distance themselves from you, you may want to check through the signs<\/a> to know for sure.<\/p>\n

63. I shall look at you out of the corner of my eye, and you will say nothing. Words are the source of misunderstandings.<\/p>\n

-Antoine de Saint-Exup\u00e9ry<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

64. What if everything in the world were a misunderstanding, what if laughter were really tears?<\/p>\n

-Soren Kierkegaard<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

65. Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness, and drama.<\/p>\n

-Miguel Ruiz<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

66. Texting is a brilliant way to miscommunicate how you feel and misinterpret what other people mean.<\/p>\n

-Unknown<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

67. Beware of the half-truth. You may have gotten hold of the wrong half.<\/p>\n

-Unknown<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

68. Every one interprets everything in terms of his own experience. If you say anything which does not touch a precisely similar spot in another man’s brain, he either misunderstands you, or doesn’t understand you at all.<\/p>\n

-Aleister Crowley<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

69. Fights between individuals, as well as governments and nations, invariably result from misunderstandings in the broadest interpretation of this term. Misunderstandings are always caused by the inability of appreciating one another’s point of view.<\/p>\n

-Nikola Tesla<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

70. Never choose anyone without complete understanding and never lose anyone because of a small misunderstanding.<\/p>\n

-Unknown<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Is it just a misunderstanding in your relationship or friendship, as this quote suggests? Or are you wasting your time with the wrong person? Read about the instances when you should stay away from someone<\/a>.<\/p>\n

71. They ended as all great passions do end \u2013 by a misunderstanding.<\/p>\n

-Honore de Balzac<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

72. Five minutes of communication can save a year\u2019s worth of turmoil and misunderstanding.<\/p>\n

-Joyce Meyer<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Misunderstanding Is Unavoidable But Possible to Overcome<\/h2>\n

All these quotes boil down to one simple truth: misunderstanding will always exist, whether it’s a friendship, a romantic relationship, or a family union. This is because it\u2019s much easier to jump to conclusions and misinterpret someone\u2019s words and behaviors than try to actually understand them.<\/p>\n

At the same time, the above misunderstanding quotes remind us that we should always consider other people\u2019s feelings, even when we don\u2019t agree with them. In essence, all we need to do to avoid misunderstandings is to put ourselves in others\u2019 shoes before judging someone.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s such a simple idea, and yet, this is so difficult to do in practice. That\u2019s why misunderstanding is unavoidable. We can only do our best to be less selfish and more understanding with those around us.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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