{"id":1133,"date":"2022-11-20T15:29:17","date_gmt":"2022-11-20T15:29:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/?p=1133"},"modified":"2022-11-20T15:29:17","modified_gmt":"2022-11-20T15:29:17","slug":"friendship-red-flags","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/friendship-red-flags\/","title":{"rendered":"12 Friendship Red Flags You Should Never Ignore"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Some friendships are healthy, others are toxic. Sometimes we hang out with someone out of habit or simply because we fail to see their true face. That\u2019s why you need to be aware of friendship red flags to make sure you don\u2019t waste your time on the wrong people.<\/p>\n<p>There are countless articles about toxic relationships, being married to a manipulator, and dating a narcissist. However, being friends with a toxic person is no less dangerous than being in a romantic union with them.<\/p>\n<p>Some people can fool you for years until you realize they haven\u2019t been your true friend all this time. So, how to avoid falling victim to toxic friendships? Read through the list below.<\/p>\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_64 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title \" >Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #222222;color:#222222\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #222222;color:#222222\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/friendship-red-flags\/#12_Friendship_Red_Flags_to_Pay_Attention_to\" title=\"12 Friendship Red Flags to Pay Attention to\">12 Friendship Red Flags to Pay Attention to<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/friendship-red-flags\/#1_Disrespect\" title=\"1. Disrespect\">1. Disrespect<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/friendship-red-flags\/#2_Emotional_invalidation\" title=\"2. Emotional invalidation\">2. Emotional invalidation<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/friendship-red-flags\/#3_Lack_of_interest\" title=\"3. Lack of interest\">3. Lack of interest<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/friendship-red-flags\/#4_Always_in_need\" title=\"4. Always in need\">4. Always in need<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/friendship-red-flags\/#5_Competitiveness_and_jealousy\" title=\"5. Competitiveness and jealousy\">5. Competitiveness and jealousy<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/friendship-red-flags\/#6_One-sidedness\" title=\"6. One-sidedness\">6. One-sidedness<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/friendship-red-flags\/#7_Friendship_of_convenience\" title=\"7. Friendship of convenience\">7. Friendship of convenience<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/friendship-red-flags\/#8_Speaking_ill_about_everyone_else_in_your_life\" title=\"8. Speaking ill about everyone else in your life\">8. Speaking ill about everyone else in your life<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-10\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/friendship-red-flags\/#9_Not_being_happy_for_you\" title=\"9. Not being happy for you\">9. Not being happy for you<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-11\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/friendship-red-flags\/#10_Violating_your_boundaries\" title=\"10. Violating your boundaries\">10. Violating your boundaries<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-12\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/friendship-red-flags\/#11_Fakeness\" title=\"11. Fakeness\">11. Fakeness<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-13\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/friendship-red-flags\/#12_Not_considering_your_opinion\" title=\"12. Not considering your opinion\">12. Not considering your opinion<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"12_Friendship_Red_Flags_to_Pay_Attention_to\"><\/span>12 Friendship Red Flags to Pay Attention to<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_Disrespect\"><\/span>1. Disrespect<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Some people think that the very fact that they are friends with you gives them the right to belittle you or make humiliating jokes. They often pass off such behaviors as \u2018having fun\u2019. If you call them out, they say something like,<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Come on, it\u2019s just a joke!<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Don\u2019t get fooled\u2013the truth is that <a href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/signs-your-friend-doesnt-respect-you\/\">your friend doesn\u2019t respect you<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Some people love having someone around just to make fun of them\u2013this helps them feel better about themselves. It\u2019s understandable when a troubled teen behaves this way, but it\u2019s totally unacceptable for an adult.<\/p>\n<p>Whether your friend is disrespectful only toward you or everyone else, they are not the right person to hang out with.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_Emotional_invalidation\"><\/span>2. Emotional invalidation<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Invalidating your feelings is another major red flag in a friendship. Every time you tell your friend about your worries and problems, they don\u2019t take it seriously or even laugh at you. They may get a patronizing look and give you a lecture on how insignificant your problem is.<\/p>\n<p>Time after time, you feel stupid and small after talking to your friend, so most likely, you end up not telling them anything at all. This is not a healthy situation.<\/p>\n<p>Okay, even if you exaggerate your anxieties a little bit, a genuine friend will listen and try to understand how you feel. If someone always disregards your feelings and gives you zero emotional support, you should seriously reconsider this friendship.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_Lack_of_interest\"><\/span>3. Lack of interest<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-926\" src=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/signs-of-a-shallow-person.jpg\" alt=\"signs of a shallow person\" width=\"600\" height=\"707\" srcset=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/signs-of-a-shallow-person.jpg 600w, https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/signs-of-a-shallow-person-255x300.jpg 255w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>In our narcissistic digital age, some people seem to forget that real life is not social media. Such people need followers, not friends. They are totally uninterested in those around them\u2013they just need someone to share their own news and concerns with.<\/p>\n<p>If you have such a friend, then they probably want to see you only when they need something, be it a particular favor or just emotional support. They talk about themselves most of the time and barely listen when you speak.<\/p>\n<p>This is a key red flag when it comes to friendships. You don\u2019t need a friend who only sees you as their loyal fan, a listening ear, or someone who is always there for help. Such <a href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/signs-your-friend-doesnt-care-about-you\/\">friends simply don\u2019t care about you<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4_Always_in_need\"><\/span>4. Always in need<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>There are people who chronically get in trouble. One day they lose their job, the other day their car is broken, then they start a relationship with a toxic person who messes up their whole life.<\/p>\n<p>They are always the victim of circumstances\/other people and they always need your help. Yes, it\u2019s understandable if you feel sorry for your friend and obliged to be there for them.<\/p>\n<p>But is this friendship balanced? Do they do the same for you when you face hardships? If they don\u2019t, then this friendship is more like being a parent of a troubled teen and sorting out their mess. It\u2019s not healthy, and it doesn\u2019t do you any good.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5_Competitiveness_and_jealousy\"><\/span>5. Competitiveness and jealousy<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Real friends are supposed to be supportive and accepting. Sadly, it\u2019s not always the case.<\/p>\n<p>What if your friend gets competitive when you achieve something or just talk about your past accomplishments? Do they immediately shift the focus of the conversation onto themselves and tell you how much they\u2019ve achieved, too?<\/p>\n<p>Being around jealous people can be dangerous. They drain your energy and kill your self-esteem, making you feel like your achievements are worthless.<\/p>\n<p>Unhealthy competitiveness and envy are among those friendship red flags that you should never ignore. The only thing such people do is poison you with self-doubt.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"6_One-sidedness\"><\/span>6. One-sidedness<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-720\" src=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/outgrowing-friends-signs.jpg\" alt=\"outgrowing friends signs\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/outgrowing-friends-signs.jpg 800w, https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/outgrowing-friends-signs-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/outgrowing-friends-signs-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>As we said above, some people just don\u2019t care about those around them. They may use them for their own advantage or just hang out with someone out of habit. In either case, there is no genuine interest.<\/p>\n<p>Are you the only one who gets in touch? Your friend barely ever calls you or sends you a message. And of course, they never suggest doing something together. If you don\u2019t contact them first or invite them, then they may disappear from your life for months.<\/p>\n<p>This is not a real friendship\u2013it\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/one-sided-friendship-signs\/\">one-sided<\/a>, and it\u2019s probably dying. Remember that any kind of connection with another person should be based on reciprocated feelings. If you are the only one who shows any interest at all, then you are wasting your time.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"7_Friendship_of_convenience\"><\/span>7. Friendship of convenience<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Being exploited is probably among the most telling red flags in friendships. Realizing that you are <a href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/friend-of-convenience-signs\/\">just a friend of convenience<\/a> to someone can be painful. But the sooner you see the truth, the faster you will end this toxic connection, which is not a friendship at all.<\/p>\n<p>Does your friend pop up only when they need a favor? Do they often borrow money from you or come for help? Are they non-existent when you are in trouble?<\/p>\n<p>All these are signs that your friend is simply using you. Your presence in their life is based on convenience, not genuine interest. You\u2019d better stay away from people who seek to exploit you.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"8_Speaking_ill_about_everyone_else_in_your_life\"><\/span>8. Speaking ill about everyone else in your life<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Okay, some people happen to be negative and bitter. Some may not like other people, so they have nothing nice to say about anyone.<\/p>\n<p>But you should really start worrying when your friend is trying to turn you against everyone else in your life. This may be a sneaky manipulation tactic that aims to isolate you from your support system.<\/p>\n<p>Does your friend always speak ill about everyone, from your spouse to your parents? Does s\/he always criticize everything they do, trying to convince you that there are shady motives behind their actions?<\/p>\n<p>The truth may be quite the opposite: <strong>it\u2019s your friend who has shady motives<\/strong>. The best way to deal with manipulative people is to <a href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/signs-you-should-stay-away-from-someone\/\">stay away from them<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"9_Not_being_happy_for_you\"><\/span>9. Not being happy for you<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>We expect our friends to share both our happiness and unhappiness with us. Isn&#8217;t it what friendships are supposed to be for? So, what happens when your friend is never happy for you?<\/p>\n<p>Whether you fell in love or got a promotion at work, they <a href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/personality\/bitter-person-definition-signs\/\">get bitter<\/a>. They may try to put a fly in the ointment and spoil your happiness. That guy you are dating seems suspicious, so don\u2019t be overly enthusiastic. That promotion is just a way for your boss to get closer to you.<\/p>\n<p>Whenever you share your joy with your friend, you go from feeling happy to feeling down and doubting yourself. Such people have a remarkable ability to ruin everyone\u2019s happiness. The truth is that it\u2019s their own unhappiness that leaves them unable to share others\u2019 joy.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"10_Violating_your_boundaries\"><\/span>10. Violating your boundaries<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>As described above, some people believe that being someone\u2019s friend gives them the right to get disrespectful. Violating one\u2019s boundaries is a form of disrespect too, especially when someone does it on a regular basis.<\/p>\n<p>Do you have a friend who thinks it\u2019s okay to show up at your door unannounced late at night? Or bring random people to your birthday party? Or meddle in your relationship with your partner?<\/p>\n<p>All these are <a href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/overstepping-boundaries-examples\/\">examples of overstepping boundaries<\/a>, and you should never tolerate this behavior. This is a huge red flag for any type of relationship, be it a romantic, family, or friendly one.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"11_Fakeness\"><\/span>11. Fakeness<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-998\" src=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/becarefulfriend.jpg\" alt=\"Be careful who you trust and tell your problems to. Not everyone who smiles at you is your friend.\" width=\"800\" height=\"800\" srcset=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/becarefulfriend.jpg 800w, https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/becarefulfriend-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/becarefulfriend-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/becarefulfriend-768x768.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you catch your friend acting fake around someone else, it\u2019s a good reason to question whether they are being honest with you.<\/p>\n<p>There is a simple and universal rule many of us neglect: <strong>the way someone treats others is most likely the way they treat you, too<\/strong>. Be it gossiping, not saying what they mean, faking their feelings, or taking advantage of others, this is their way of handling those around them, and you are no exception.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, if you have a friend who gives someone a wide smile just to tell you later how much they hate this person, beware.<\/p>\n<p>Fake people have an amazing ability to make you feel like you are their most valuable friend. That you are the only person they can share their secrets with, and that\u2019s why they often gossip and criticize others.<\/p>\n<p>The truth is that when you are not around, they gossip about you, too. Don\u2019t fool yourself\u2013you can\u2019t trust fake people, so you\u2019d better stay away from them.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"12_Not_considering_your_opinion\"><\/span>12. Not considering your opinion<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Finally, another friendship red flag is when someone repeatedly dismisses your opinion as unimportant. We all want to feel heard and seen, especially within our friend circle.<\/p>\n<p>So, if you have a friend who doesn\u2019t consider your words at all, you should think hard whether this person is indeed your friend.<\/p>\n<p>They may believe that they know better what\u2019s best for you, so they impose their opinions on you. They act like a controlling parent and get patronizing, telling you what to wear and who to date.<\/p>\n<p>Such people leave you <a href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/mind\/feeling-invisible-causes\/\">feeling worthless and invisible<\/a>, so do you really need such \u2018friends\u2019?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1135\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1135\" style=\"width: 790px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1135\" src=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/red-flags-in-friendships.jpg\" alt=\"red flags in friendships\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/red-flags-in-friendships.jpg 800w, https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/red-flags-in-friendships-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/red-flags-in-friendships-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1135\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.freepik.com\/free-photo\/serious-confident-woman-say-no-extend-one-finger-stop-you-prohibit-something-bad-standing-determi_18148461.htm#query=saying%20no&amp;position=4&amp;from_view=search&amp;track=sph\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Image by benzoix<\/a> on Freepik<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>If some of the above friendship red flags ring the bell, it\u2019s a good idea to reconsider your circle. After all, the point is to be surrounded by supportive and loyal friends and cultivate healthy connections with other people.<\/p>\n<p>If you ever find yourself hanging out with the wrong person, you\u2019d better distance yourself from them before you end up feeling used and <a href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/feeling-disappointed-in-people\/\">disappointed in people<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Some friendships are healthy, others are toxic. Sometimes we hang out with someone out of habit or simply because we fail to see their true face. That\u2019s why you need to be aware of friendship red flags to make sure you don\u2019t waste your time on the wrong people. There are countless articles about toxic &#8230; <a title=\"12 Friendship Red Flags You Should Never Ignore\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/friendship-red-flags\/\" aria-label=\"Read more about 12 Friendship Red Flags You Should Never Ignore\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1134,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[16,29],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1133"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1133"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1133\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1137,"href":"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1133\/revisions\/1137"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1134"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1133"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1133"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1133"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}