{"id":1088,"date":"2022-10-09T12:07:15","date_gmt":"2022-10-09T12:07:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/?p=1088"},"modified":"2022-10-09T12:07:15","modified_gmt":"2022-10-09T12:07:15","slug":"overstepping-boundaries-examples","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/overstepping-boundaries-examples\/","title":{"rendered":"10 Examples of Overstepping Boundaries and How to Deal with It"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>We all have had that one co-worker who always asks for favors, distracting you from work. Or a friend who has the habit of showing up at your door unannounced.<\/p>\n<p>Some of us also know what it\u2019s like to be in a toxic relationship where your partner suffers from pathological jealousy and controls every move you make.<\/p>\n<p>What do all these people have in common? They overstep your boundaries. Let\u2019s talk about the definition of this behavior and list some examples so that you can recognize it and deal with it.<\/p>\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_64 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title \" >Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #222222;color:#222222\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #222222;color:#222222\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/overstepping-boundaries-examples\/#What_Does_Overstepping_Boundaries_Mean\" title=\"What Does Overstepping Boundaries Mean?\">What Does Overstepping Boundaries Mean?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/overstepping-boundaries-examples\/#Examples_of_Overstepping_Boundaries\" title=\"Examples of Overstepping Boundaries:\">Examples of Overstepping Boundaries:<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/overstepping-boundaries-examples\/#4_Big_Signs_Someone_Is_Overstepping_Your_Boundaries\" title=\"4 Big Signs Someone Is Overstepping Your Boundaries\">4 Big Signs Someone Is Overstepping Your Boundaries<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/overstepping-boundaries-examples\/#1_Their_behavior_is_making_you_uncomfortable\" title=\"1. Their behavior is making you uncomfortable\">1. Their behavior is making you uncomfortable<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/overstepping-boundaries-examples\/#2_They_make_you_cross_your_own_lines\" title=\"2. They make you cross your own lines\">2. They make you cross your own lines<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/overstepping-boundaries-examples\/#3_They_dont_consider_your_needs_and_feelings\" title=\"3. They don\u2019t consider your needs and feelings\">3. They don\u2019t consider your needs and feelings<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/overstepping-boundaries-examples\/#4_You_may_feel_guilty_and_try_to_justify_their_behavior\" title=\"4. You may feel guilty and try to justify their behavior\">4. You may feel guilty and try to justify their behavior<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/overstepping-boundaries-examples\/#What_to_Do_When_Someone_Oversteps_Your_Boundaries\" title=\"What to Do When Someone Oversteps Your Boundaries?\">What to Do When Someone Oversteps Your Boundaries?<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/overstepping-boundaries-examples\/#1_Voice_your_boundaries\" title=\"1. Voice your boundaries\">1. Voice your boundaries<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-10\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/overstepping-boundaries-examples\/#2_Dont_justify_yourself_or_give_in_to_guilt\" title=\"2. Don\u2019t justify yourself or give in to guilt\">2. Don\u2019t justify yourself or give in to guilt<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-11\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/overstepping-boundaries-examples\/#3_Beware_of_people_pleasing\" title=\"3. Beware of people pleasing\">3. Beware of people pleasing<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-12\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/overstepping-boundaries-examples\/#4_Be_selective_in_your_battles\" title=\"4. Be selective in your battles\">4. Be selective in your battles<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-13\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/overstepping-boundaries-examples\/#5_Accept_the_fact_that_some_people_will_violate_your_boundaries_no_matter_what\" title=\"5. Accept the fact that some people will violate your boundaries no matter what\">5. Accept the fact that some people will violate your boundaries no matter what<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_Does_Overstepping_Boundaries_Mean\"><\/span>What Does Overstepping Boundaries Mean?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>It means doing something that goes beyond the lines of what you allow. It could be invading your personal space or getting you to do something you don\u2019t want.<\/p>\n<p>When someone oversteps your boundaries, you can recognize it by the feeling of discomfort you get. This person can make you uncomfortable with their disrespectful, intimidating, pushy, or nosy behavior.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Examples_of_Overstepping_Boundaries\"><\/span>Examples of Overstepping Boundaries:<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<ol>\n<li>Someone asks you an embarrassing personal question<\/li>\n<li>Your friend shows up unannounced even though she knows you are having a romantic dinner with your boyfriend<\/li>\n<li>Your jealous girlfriend asks you to provide access to your Facebook account so that she can check your private messages<\/li>\n<li>Your friend makes you cancel your plans for the weekend so that you can join him at a party he wants to go<\/li>\n<li>Your boss threatens to fire you if you refuse to work late<\/li>\n<li>Your college friend acts needy, asking you over and over again to help her with an assignment, otherwise she will be expelled<\/li>\n<li>Your elderly mother meddles in your love life<\/li>\n<li>Your husband doesn\u2019t let you go out with your friends<\/li>\n<li>Your friend brings random people to the private get-together you\u2019ve planned, without even asking if you are okay with that<\/li>\n<li>Your younger brother asks to stay at your place until he finds a new job, but he never moves out and ends up living at your expense<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4_Big_Signs_Someone_Is_Overstepping_Your_Boundaries\"><\/span>4 Big Signs Someone Is Overstepping Your Boundaries<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_Their_behavior_is_making_you_uncomfortable\"><\/span>1. Their behavior is making you uncomfortable<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>We all have personal boundaries. They differ from person to person, but there is one thing in common\u2013when someone crosses the line, we feel uncomfortable. It\u2019s as if our cozy personal shell is brutally invaded.<\/p>\n<p>Whether <a href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/signs-your-friend-doesnt-respect-you\/\">someone acts disrespectful<\/a>, gets too nosy, or intimidates you, they leave you feeling uneasy and confused.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_They_make_you_cross_your_own_lines\"><\/span>2. They make you cross your own lines<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>A person who is violating your boundaries can make you do things you wouldn\u2019t normally do.<\/p>\n<p>For example, an acquaintance acts rude, provoking you to get defensive and say mean things you wouldn\u2019t normally say.<\/p>\n<p>Or your girlfriend makes you go against your principles and asks you to show her your private messages. You agree to do that even though you believe that privacy should be respected.<\/p>\n<p>So, when someone tries to make you do something you don\u2019t want, ask yourself the following questions:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Am I overstepping my boundaries?<\/li>\n<li>Am I going against my beliefs and values?<\/li>\n<li>Is my behavior going beyond the lines of what I would normally do?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_They_dont_consider_your_needs_and_feelings\"><\/span>3. They don\u2019t consider your needs and feelings<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>People overstep boundaries for many reasons, but selfishness is often the root. When it\u2019s paired with a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC5513638\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">lack of empathy<\/a>, a person doesn\u2019t consider how their behavior affects others.<\/p>\n<p>They need something from you and don\u2019t worry about whether you have time and desire to do that or not. They get disrespectful and pushy without thinking how their words are making you feel.<\/p>\n<p>You can clearly see it in situations when the other person ignores your opinion or emotional state and keeps pushing you to do what they want.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4_You_may_feel_guilty_and_try_to_justify_their_behavior\"><\/span>4. You may feel guilty and try to justify their behavior<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-938\" src=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/feeling-unappreciated-in-a-relationship.jpg\" alt=\"feeling unappreciated in a relationship\" width=\"800\" height=\"530\" srcset=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/feeling-unappreciated-in-a-relationship.jpg 800w, https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/feeling-unappreciated-in-a-relationship-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/feeling-unappreciated-in-a-relationship-768x509.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Oftentimes, it\u2019s our family and friends who overstep our boundaries. So, it\u2019s not easy for us to accept the fact that what they are doing is crossing the line. For this reason, we are trying to put ourselves in their shoes and justify their behavior.<\/p>\n<p>When your sibling or best friend gets pushy or intimidating because you refuse to do them a favor, you can start to feel guilty as well.<\/p>\n<p>They are your family\/friend, so you have to be there for them, right? You just <em>have to<\/em> help them\u2013even if you need to disregard your wants to do what they ask for.<\/p>\n<p>This creates confusion: on the one hand, you feel that you should say no and stay true to yourself, on the other hand, you feel guilty for not wanting to help someone you care about.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_to_Do_When_Someone_Oversteps_Your_Boundaries\"><\/span>What to Do When Someone Oversteps Your Boundaries?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_Voice_your_boundaries\"><\/span>1. Voice your boundaries<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>It\u2019s difficult to stand up for yourself, especially when you are an introvert. People of this personality type tend to feel awkward talking about their feelings, so they prefer to avoid difficult conversations.<\/p>\n<p>Still, if a friend or family member repeatedly violates your boundaries, you have no other choice. You need to <strong>speak up for yourself and make things clear<\/strong>. Maybe they are not even realizing what they are doing, so you need to voice your boundaries openly and firmly.<\/p>\n<p>Make sure to be polite and focus on the way someone\u2019s behavior makes you feel. For example:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Please don\u2019t make such jokes. They sound offensive.<\/li>\n<li>Please ask me if I\u2019m available before coming to my place. I have things to do, so it feels awkward when you just show up.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_Dont_justify_yourself_or_give_in_to_guilt\"><\/span>2. Don\u2019t justify yourself or give in to guilt<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>When voicing your boundaries, it\u2019s important to be clear and firm. If you start mumbling and justifying yourself, it will give the other person the upper hand, especially if they consciously overstep your boundaries.<\/p>\n<p>So, avoid over-explaining your needs. Just say what kind of behavior crosses the line and why\u2013in one or two sentences.<\/p>\n<p>Also, you need to make sure you don\u2019t sound guilty. This will weaken your point and make you seem the only guilty party.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>For example, it\u2019s better to say \u201c<em>I wish I could help you, but I can\u2019t\u201d <\/em>instead of<em> \u201cI\u2019m so sorry I can\u2019t help you<\/em>\u201d.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_Beware_of_people_pleasing\"><\/span>3. Beware of people pleasing<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Sometimes we unconsciously let other people take advantage of us. It happens when we constantly say yes and step on our own needs for the sake of pleasing others.<\/p>\n<p>So, sometimes dealing with a friend or family member who oversteps your boundaries starts with yourself. Ask yourself the following:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Do you say yes too often when you want to say no?<\/li>\n<li>Do you prefer to do something you don\u2019t like so that people leave you alone?<\/li>\n<li>Are you prone to getting passive aggressive when doing someone a favor?<\/li>\n<li>Do you often <a href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/mind\/feeling-unappreciated-work-relationship\/\">feel unappreciated<\/a>, like other people take you for granted?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>If you recognize yourself in the above, read through <a href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/mind\/how-to-be-true-to-yourself\/\">our guide on staying true to yourself<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4_Be_selective_in_your_battles\"><\/span>4. Be selective in your battles<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>As an introvert, I&#8217;ve faced a lot of random people who overstepped my boundaries at gatherings and parties. Some would ask uncomfortable personal questions, others would be too pushy about making me talk.<\/p>\n<p>One lesson I learned from dealing with people like this is that avoiding talking to them altogether is going to save you a lot of time and energy.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, if a random person is overstepping your boundaries, sometimes it\u2019s better to just ignore them. It doesn\u2019t make sense to hash things out with someone you don\u2019t care about.<\/p>\n<p>For example, an acquaintance is asking you a personal question you don\u2019t want to answer. Do you think it\u2019s necessary to tell them how awkward you feel? Is it a good idea to give them a lecture on how inappropriate asking such questions is? Of course, not.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, you can just ignore it or reply with a joke and change the subject. This reaction will still make it clear that you are not going to answer an inappropriate personal question just because someone <a href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/nosey-people-quotes\/\">happens to be too nosy<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>It will show them that you are firm about your personal boundaries.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5_Accept_the_fact_that_some_people_will_violate_your_boundaries_no_matter_what\"><\/span>5. Accept the fact that some people will violate your boundaries no matter what<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>There are some types of people that just don\u2019t feel where the line lies. This can be someone who is nosy, pushy, or lacking empathy. They don\u2019t realize when they invade someone\u2019s personal space, and sometimes they don\u2019t even consider how their behavior affects others emotionally.<\/p>\n<p>So, the best thing you can do is to <a href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/signs-you-should-stay-away-from-someone\/\">stay away from such people<\/a>. If you have an overly friendly co-worker who loves snooping into other people\u2019s lives, you can choose to avoid personal conversations with her.<\/p>\n<p>But what if it\u2019s your best friend or parent who is a fan of crossing boundaries? Having such people in your friend or family circle can be a problem. It is particularly difficult to deal with siblings, parents, or grandparents overstepping boundaries.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1090\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1090\" style=\"width: 790px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-1090 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/grandaprents-overstepping-boundaries.jpg\" alt=\"grandaprents overstepping boundaries\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/grandaprents-overstepping-boundaries.jpg 800w, https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/grandaprents-overstepping-boundaries-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/grandaprents-overstepping-boundaries-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1090\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.freepik.com\/free-photo\/snoopy-senior-man-with-thick-gray-beard-posing-isolated-with-his-attractive-nosy-blonde-wife-holding-hands-ear-trying-overhear-private-conversation-secret-curious-news-eavesdropping_11102675.htm\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Image by karlyukav<\/a> on Freepik<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>In this case, you can still set firm boundaries and refuse to talk about certain subjects. For example, if your elderly mother meddles in your love life, the best solution is to not tell her a single detail about it.<\/p>\n<p>If a friend or sibling constantly asks for favors or money, then you could limit your contact with them. When a person is used to living off others, it\u2019s very unlikely that they will ever change. Therefore, if you are not ready to <a href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/quotes-about-cutting-people-off\/\">cut them out of your life completely<\/a>, you can at least keep your distance.<\/p>\n<p>The worst thing you could do is try to fix a person who has the habit of overstepping boundaries. Don\u2019t waste your time. Be firm and consistent in maintaining strong personal boundaries and don\u2019t let anyone violate them, even if they are your family.<\/p>\n<p><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.freepik.com\/free-photo\/angry-male-face-through-yellow-paper-hole-outraged-man-sticks-head-through-torn-background_11633742.htm\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Featured image by wayhomestudio<\/a> on Freepik<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We all have had that one co-worker who always asks for favors, distracting you from work. Or a friend who has the habit of showing up at your door unannounced. Some of us also know what it\u2019s like to be in a toxic relationship where your partner suffers from pathological jealousy and controls every move &#8230; <a title=\"10 Examples of Overstepping Boundaries and How to Deal with It\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/communication\/overstepping-boundaries-examples\/\" aria-label=\"Read more about 10 Examples of Overstepping Boundaries and How to Deal with It\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1091,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1088"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1088"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1088\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1092,"href":"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1088\/revisions\/1092"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1091"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1088"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1088"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/powerofmisfits.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1088"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}